It’s JavaJen time! Grab yourself a cuppa java, a latte, hot cuppa tea or Mountain Dew/Red Bull for your morning jolt of caffeine! Get comfy and pop a squat for a few minutes while learning about Jennie Barger and what makes her who she is! Here’s Part I of Jennie’s Interview…
ABOUT ME:
1.Your full name: Jennie Marie Farkasdi Barger
2.Are you married? Yes!!! I have been extremely happily married to the love of my life for 25 years!! (Kim: Awwww!! That’s wonderful!)
3. Do you have any children? Yes!! We have 3 children: Heidi is 24, JJ is 22 and Gregory is 12. (Kim: It sounds like you have a busy life with children and grandchildren all around you)
4.What is your FAVORITE…color: Pink – I have always liked the color pink but even more so now because I am a 7+year breast cancer survivor! HOLIDAY: definitely Christmas because of how much we get together with family! This Christmas will be especially wonderful because our daughter and son-in-law are expecting our first grandchild!! (Her due date is even on Christmas Day!) DAY OF THE WEEK: probably Friday because since my husband travels, that is usually the day he comes home! TIME OF DAY: evening when the days work is done and I can chill and usually ichat with my husband! SEASON: hmmmmm……….that’s a hard one because there is so much to love about each one! Fall’s crispness and colors, I absolutely love! Spring’s freshness is amazing! But, I guess I would say summer because that’s when our week-long family reunion is and that totally rocks!!
CRAFT SUPPLY: is without a doubt, my cricut and my gypsy! Ok, sorry, that’s 2 but I don’t use one without the other! They have definitely taken my crafting to another level and have been so valuable in doing wedding invites for 2 of our kids’ weddings, just to name a few! TV SHOW: pretty much anything on Food Network! My youngest and I get inspired to try new recipes and combinations often! MOVIE: A Man Called Peter – this movie makes me cry every time because it reminds me so much of my Dad, who has been gone for almost 10 years now. It is the life story of Peter Marshall and since my Dad was an immigrant as well, it really hits home!! It’s really a wonderful movie! FOOD: Lesco, pronounced “Letcho”. It is a hungarian stew that my Dad made with green peppers, onions, tomatoes, sausage and lots of different spices! He always made it for me on my birthday and about 6 months before he died, he showed me how to make it! Boy, am I glad he did! It is so good!! BOOK: definitely the Bible!! Don’t know where I’d be if it weren’t for God as my Saviour! EVERYTHING else is secondary to that! SONG: It’s a tie between the hymn, “Tis So Sweet to Trust in Jesus” and “I Don’t Want to Go” by Avalon! PLACE TO SHOP: All the stores that are close to where I live – Hobby Lobby, Joann’s, Michael’s and Archiver’s, although I really miss the local scrapbook store that I shopped at back in Tiffin, OH called Scrap Happy! It was always so much fun to go there!!
5. What do you like to do in your free time? In my free time, I , of course, am creating fun new projects for my blog and to give to family and friends. I embarked on an ambitious decision to make birthday cards for everyone in my family – both sides!! By the end of the year, I will have made over 90 cards! I have already made over 50 to date! Needless to say, that keeps me hoppin’!! My youngest son, whom I homeschool, and I, like to travel with my husband when we can. We’ve been privileged to see some pretty amazing places! (Kim: That is quite the ambitious decision to make cards for everyone!)
6.What is your favorite quote: My favorite quote is one by Charles Spurgeon: “I have heard of one man who said that he did not like to prejudice his boy, so he would not say anything to him about religion. The devil, however, was quite willing to prejudice the lad, so very early in life, he learnt to swear, although his father had a foolish and wicked objection to teaching him to pray. If you ever feel it incumbent upon you not to prejudice a piece of ground by sowing good seed in it, you may rest assured that the weeds will not imitate your impartiality, but they will take possession of the land in a very sad and shocking manner. Where the plough does not go, and the seed is not sown, the weeds are quite sure to multiply; and if children are left untutored and untrained, all sorts of evils will spring up in their hearts and lives.” I know this is a little heavy, but, for me, it really points out the important job we have as parents!! (Kim: I’ve read this once, twice …and now about five times and I just love this quote. How true it is and what a wonderful quote to remember and live by)
7.What is the funniest thing that has ever happened to you? The one fairly recent event that sticks in my mind as the funniest event, would have to be when we went bridal gown shopping for my daughter! My Mom, niece, daughter and myself walked into the store when my daughter was promptly “pounced” on by Dana, our sales lady! She was a larger woman who kind of took over – like maybe SHE was the mother! She even wanted to come into the dressing room and “help”! To make a long story short, by the time we left, we were ready to bust at the seams because we wanted so bad to laugh! My niece started saying things like,”We should just invite Dana to the wedding and have her sit beside you!” To top it off, my niece and I were in the backseat of my daughter’s 2-door Honda, so every time we got out, we “acted” like we were being born and of course we were laughing hysterically! My Mom and daughter were laughing, in spite of the fact that they were seriously thinking that we had mental problems!! I guess you just had to be there but I definitely have to count this evening as one of my funniest, most enjoyable and just plain greatest ever! Whew!! (Kim: That’s a very cute story and I bet one you will all remember because you enjoyed the same giggles!)
8. What one regret do you have or one thing you wish you could do over again? To be honest, I really don’t know if there is anything that I wish I could do over again. Well, maybe- if I knew then what I know now about raising children, I may have done a few things differently. But that is just a process that all of us parents must go through. It’s all part of the job description! Haha!! I truly believe that everything that we go through and experience, makes us who we are today and makes us stronger! (Kim: Oh boy, don’t we all wish there was a golden book to have read with all the details of raising a child……)
9. What is your most memorable moment that you feel comfortable sharing with all of us? Without a doubt, my most memorable event that I will NEVER forget, was when our youngest was born! I had a stillborn son nearly two years before, so we were very anxious in the delivery room, to say the least! All I wanted was to hear him cry real loud because I kept remembering how quiet it was the last time! When he started crying, so did I – this time from happiness!! What a victory! Our son has blessed our lives in so many ways! (Kim: I can’t imagine what you felt when your first son was stillborn. My hurt hearts for you every time I read this and cannot imagine what a parent must feel who has experienced this pain. I’m so happy that it did turn out to be a beautiful story with the birth of your second son though – you must have felt such a mixture of emotions the moment you heard his cry. :::hugs:::)
10. Do you have any funny stories you’d like to share? Funny story – I never even had aspirations or dreams to be a coffee shop owner, but that is exactly what happened 6 years ago!! We have since sold the shop but that was my life for 4.5 years! Definitely one of the most time-consuming times of my life but also blessed in so many ways! The people we met, friends we made and things learned are invaluable! This is the reason I have become known as Java Jen!
(Kim: That is a cute story. I was wondering when the JavaJen was going to come into the interview)
11.What is one thing you are proud of? MY KIDS! I am so blessed and love being called Mom to these 3 amazing, wonderful people!! (Kim: Awwww! And I bet they are very proud to have you as their mom!)
12. Do you consider yourself to be a risktaker? I don’t really consider myself to be a risk taker in the true sense of the word, but I do love adventure and a change of scenery when I can get it! I do enjoy NOT mapping out every detail of my life and going with the flow! (Kim: Same here!)
13. Have you ever won anything? I actually won a DVD set of Little House on the Prairie from My Pink Stamper!! Fun! (Kim: Well that must have been fun! I used to LOVE that show)
14. What would you consider to be a fun day? My idea of fun is a day spent with my Mom, my daughter and my sister-in-law CRAFTING – (of course!) We have so much fun together!! (Kim: Of course, CRAFTING! *grin*)
15.What makes you happy? Honestly, it really doesn’t take too much for me to be happy! I consider myself a rather low-maintenance kind of person! What makes me happiest, though, is knowing that my family is happy, healthy and serving the Lord! Is there anything else!? (Kim: That’s wonderful! I think that’s what makes you such a great person!)
16. What makes you sad? I am sad when others are hurting. I tend to take on how they are feeling. I’ve tried my best to turn that feeling into a way that I can truly help people who are going through something that I have been through. Sometimes they just need someone to listen to them and someone who understands because they have been where they are! That’s what I try to do. (Kim: I agree. It’s hard to see someone suffering or in pain for whatever reason. )
17.Whart makes you angry? I tend to get angry when I see blatent injustice! I could probably go on about this for awhile so we’ll just leave it at that!
(Kim: No kidding! This is a great response to this question. I have a real problem with this too>)
18. Do you consider yourself to be organized . Rate yourself with a 1 being not at all and a 5 being super organized. Probably a 3. I am one of those people who are constantly reorganizing because I find better ways to do something!! (Kim: Attempting to be organized is what put me in the hospital last Friday for three days….I put my back out while vacuuming and organizing my studio (landfill). Someone once told me cleaning your house was hazardous to your health – why didn’t I listen?! I found out I am the proud owner of three bulging discs…ugh…not from crafting or vacuuming but a tumble down a flight of stairs a few years ago.)
19.What are your goals? My goals in life are actually pretty simple. I want to always keep God first, love my husband, love my children and all our families, never stop learning and have fun! That fun always includes crafting too!! I have always had aspirations to get a song published. (I have written songs since I was a little girl.) In five years, my first grandchild will be 4! Who knows, maybe I’ll have more than one! In 10 years, our youngest will be out of the nest! Sniff, sniff!! Let’s change the subject!! (Kim: These are great goals! I hope you are able to publish a song someday. I bet you write some incredible heart felt songs too *smile*)
My Childhood Memories…
1. What are your fondest childhood memories? As a child, I loved being with my family and having sleepovers with my friends! I was bubbly and started taking piano and violin lessons in the 4th grade because of my love for music! (Kim: That’s great. I never learned to play any instruments but always wanted to learn. Maybe in my “free time” I’ll start taking lessons)
2.What did you enjoy doing for fun as a child? I enjoyed slumber parties and baking with my Mom! (Kim: Me too! Seems like we were always having sleepovers or I was going to someone’s house for a sleepover…I used to bake all the time with my mom too – now you have to force me into the kitchen)
3.What was your favorite cartoon? My favorite cartoon character was probably Bugs Bunny! I just loved Looney Tunes – still do! (Kim: I’m not much into cartoons anymore after being traumatized by Barney a few years ago but I do still enjoy the classic Looney Tunes)
4. What was your favorite outdoor activity as a child? Favorite outdoor activity was swimming! What about now as an adult? Now it would be laying out in the sun – (when no one else is around to see me in a bathing suit!) Haha! (Kim: Hmmmm…a water baby, eh? And now a sun worshipper….I require SPF 200+)
5. Would you describe yourself to have been a crafty child? I always enjoyed doing crafts for as long as I can remember. Mom always had “crafty” things at our disposal so we could create when the urge hit! I remember building things with craft sticks, painting, decorating cookies, coloring, drawing and woodburning. Does anyone remember Fashion Plates!!?? They were so much fun! (Kim: I was always making something too AND I had the Fashion Plates- they were awesome!)
6. What was your favorite toy? My favorite toy at one point was my Barbie dolls! I had so many as well as lots of accessories! My friends loved to come to my house! (Kim: If you’ve been following along with all of the interviews this summer you probably recall my fondness of Barbie…)
(Kim: A wonderful interview, very uplifting that left me smiling! Thank you so much Jennie for sharing this with all of us today. Make sure to check back tomorrow for Part II of Jennie’s interview and on Friday to check out the fabulous project and tutorial Jennie is sharing with OJS readers!
Until tomorrow! Happy Crafting…
Olive a great interview, don’t you?
xKim